When You’re Tired of Explaining: Advocacy Scripts That Actually Help

There’s a moment many of us know too well.

You’re standing in the checkout line, managing a meltdown, or explaining—again—why your child needs an accommodation. And while you're trying to keep your cool, someone tosses out a comment that just... lands wrong.

I used to freeze. Or over-explain. Or spiral later wondering if I said the right thing. But over time, and more than a few bumps along the way, I realized something: having a clear, calm response ready is one of the best forms of self-protection we can give ourselves and our kids.

That’s why I created these quick, realistic advocacy scripts—for the playground moments, the family dinners, the awkward silences in IEP meetings, and everything in between.

Whether you’re speaking up to a teacher, redirecting a stranger, or setting a boundary with a relative who still doesn’t get it, these scripts are meant to make things just a little easier. No snark, no guilt—just confident, respectful responses that remind the world: your child deserves support, not shame.

You can grab your copy here or visit the “Extras” tab on the site. (I keep all the good stuff there. Until next time keep advocating!

Always,
Christie